Andrea directing TEDx event |
In Part
2 of my interview with Andrea, the focus changes from her educational experiences in China with the Gaokao and her university there to her experience
of transferring to the University of Melbourne in Australia for an
undergraduate and then a Masters program. She highlights her leadership in
creating a TEDx talk as well as some of the issues that a student faces
transitioning to a new country and culture. Those seeking wise guidance will
see why Andrea will make a great teacher.
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What
was the biggest challenge when you arrived at your new school? Were the classes
easier or harder than you expected? Can you describe a favourite class or two
and say why you liked them? How approachable were the teachers? Did you
find it easy to make friends with others? Do students tend to hang out in
groups (Chinese with Chinese etc.)? How smart are most of the students? Do they
really care about learning?
I
liked my philosophy subject matter but the class was made up of overwhelmingly
local students who did not share the same culture with me and was not used to having
Asian students in class. While I already looked different, my lack of
understanding of their culture and their lack of communication with me made it
hard for me to feel comfortable in the community, particularly in the
beginning. As for the subject itself, it was not as hard as I imagined or as my
first philosophy subject at La Trobe University.
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Once
I “re-started” in my new university, the biggest challenge I faced was not the language
barrier but the difficulty of integrating into the local culture. It was
sometimes even hard to understand the “subtext” of people and the sub-culture
among local young people. They were mostly very creative, intelligent, humorous
and passionate in a way that sometimes confused me. This to some extent made my
study harder in that the misunderstanding and a feeling of awkwardness in class
impacted my performance and confidence.
It
also made it hard to make friends with classmates. Most friends I made in my
first semester at Melbourne University were mainly Asian overseas students.
However, it was interesting that I tended to keep certain distance from the
Chinese student group that was relatively exclusive to Chinese. My academic
background made it hard for me to find close friends in the group that is
mainly made up of students doing other majors where there were many more
Chinese students. There were very few Chinese students studying philosophy. With
the increase of my knowledge and understanding of western culture acquired in
my studies, I ended up being in the middle of nowhere—somewhere between the
core Chinese student group and the local arts students.
I
also found that interacting with an Australian roommate to be educational and
challenging too. We had agreed to ask each other for permission if we had
guest, but she often brought her boyfriend over without discussing it. For her
roommate, the boyfriend was just a part of her experience at school and she
expected me to simply accept this. I was uncomfortable with the situation and
it made for some tension.
What
activities did you take part in? Have you been able to travel much in the
country?
I
took part in few extra curricular activities during my exchange semester in
Australia which I call a purely “academic meditation” period. In the first
semester at Melbourne University, I tried a number of different activities,
including volunteering as an English tutor of primary school students with a
refugee background; involved in a Microfinance club, etc. this was a process of
exploration during which I was actively “finding myself”, in other words,
looking for something that can be my “call”.
In
the second semester, I started volunteering at a youth-run not-for-profit
organization that connects people learning different languages. My own
experience of and interest in learning foreign languages made me stay here for
almost two years. Language is an ideal for people from different cultures to
come closer to each other, which provided a good starting point for me to
understand the local culture. I made friends with a groups of young people,
including Australian born Asians, Chinese students as well as white
Australians. This became my home group in Australia where I could always feel
comfortable to go back to whenever I felt like it. It gave me those best
moments in this country.
The
other really unforgettable experience for me was to create the local TEDx event
at Melbourne University. It felt fantastic to start from a mere idea in mind to
a big amazing team and over a thousand followers. It was a turning point since
which I no longer doubted myself. I took a risk to create something big and it
worked and this gave me more confidence to try new things. As many of my friends told me, it is rare for
international students to achieve this. To such comments, I had mixed feelings.
On the one hand, I was impressed by how much I got done as well; but on the
other hand, I don’t think the language and culture barrier should place people
in an inferior or disadvantaged position. Another underlying concern I had with
this initiative was that my effort was not purely original; I learned to
replicate much of it from a highly recognized platform, which to some extent
reflects the stereotype people have about the lack of creativity of Chinese students.
But it is rare for someone to create something new without using previous work
so the ambition and an ability to synthesize and network all underscore what many
in business describe as creativity.
Platforms like TEDx
can teach how both of these often walled off branches of knowledge can be
brought together. In part this may stem from my culture, where the ideal is
important. Where 4 generations in a household signifies an ideal rather than an
economic problem.
Family
and the rule of people rather than the rule of law tends to be more in China. This
of course has positives and negatives, but each culture can learn from the
other and benefit from the cross-fertilization of ideas. I worry when I see
some schools bring in Chinese students who may not be adequately prepared to do
well simply because they can pay fees. When this happens student are no longer
the focus. Education, whether in TEDx presentations or in university enrolment,
needs to stay true to the mission of creating citizens who care about their
place in family and society.
What
things would you highlight to encourage students to study in Australia? Are
there any things you wish were better about your education there?
This
is an open society that embraces all kinds of cultures and values. All you need
is courage and confidence. The more you stay as the person who you are, the
more appreciated you are. However, despite the culture as such, the local
policies were truly deplorable in that all sorts of expenses for overseas
students are significantly higher than that of locals, reflecting an
essentially negative attitude towards overseas students. It seems that many
places in the world see international students as economic commodities rather
than as students first.
You
graduated with a degree but decided to stay on for graduate study. What are you
studying and why did you choose this area? What are your career plans?
I
am studying for a Masters of Teaching (secondary) degree at the moment that
would probably lead me into the career of teaching. This is partly out of a
sense of job insecurity from my arts degree, and partly due to my interest in
education. Another pragmatic reason is that teachers are highly needed in
Australia which may allow overseas teacher candidates to stay in the country.
The three reasons pushed me into this course. On the other hand, I am also considering
careers in academic research or working in governmental bodies. I have learned
that I have leadership abilities and the abilities to cross cultures and
languages at a high level. Not many have these skills and there are many paths
I can take as a result. I am beginning to think I have the ability to
accomplish projects and so I have begun to set high goals.
My
graduate study is much more practical compared to my undergraduate experience.
I was critical of it in the beginning based on its lack of intellectual
inspiration compared to the study of philosophy, but later on as the course
unfolded it turned out to be a worthwhile experience. The most unforgettable
experience was the placement at a local high school where I spend a month or so
with year 7 and 8 girls and went through their ups and downs together with
them. This was the first time I was given a chance to possibly make changes to
the minds of some young people and I believe at least I succeeded on few
students which was priceless.
How
have you changed as a result of your going so far from home to pursue your
education? Do you find that when you visit home that people seem different to
you? Do they think you are different?
I think I have become more independent and determinant. Before I left
home, I was used to the overwhelming power from my parents, particularly my mom
who is a very capable and independent woman. I was so used to her leadership
and protection that I wasn’t even aware that I had always had a safety net
below me whatever I did, until at some point I realised that she could no
longer help me, especially in major decisions in that she has no idea about
“the foreign countries”. This was the first time I found out that the safety
net was gone, and I had to stand on my own feet, which was also necessary for
me to learn to be independent.
At
the same time, it was inevitable that I took on some western culture, such as
taste of cultural products, ways of thinking, and especially values that came
from my undergraduate studies. This not only drew a line between me and other
Chinese students in Australia, it also widened the gap between me and my peers in
China. We found it hard to understand and communicate with each other due to
our different upbringing and values. My group of friends gradually became those
who also study overseas, such as the US.
What
kind of student should consider going abroad? What kind of student might not
like it?
Those
students who may think it a good idea to study abroad are: first, have
sufficient economic resource to support their living and studying overseas;
second, are resilient and confident enough to endure the loneliness and
adaptive to new environments; and third, desire freedom in academics and ideas.
Those who are used to stick to their family and hometown and loves peaceful
life in a same place may consider it a better option to live against this
“grant trend of modernity”.
Do you have any advice about how to prepare for the
challenges of doing what you have done? What would you say to parents who are
hesitant about supporting the wish of their child to go abroad?
Resilience and open-mindedness are quite important to prepare
for the challenge of living and studying overseas independently. A mindset that
is willing to accept all kinds of tough facts is crucial so as to calmly go
through arguments with landlords, confusions about transport, huge amounts of
assignment in strikingly short time, necessity to cook and clean the room, etc.
Above all, if the student does not see much value in going abroad and would not
make good use of the expensive opportunity, it may not be sensible to pay the
dear price of missing and worrying about the kid in most time of the year, let
alone the considerable financial sacrifice. However, for those who do have such
passion to “go global” and improve themselves, and also are “wealthy and
mentally resilient” enough, I see no point in preventing them from following
their heart.
Andrea’s own
question: since you spend most time of each year away from home, how do you balance
the time and effort spend on your family members and your study and life in
Melbourne? What do you do when you are homesick?
To be honest, I am
not juggling these issues very well. The only time I talk to my parents online
is when I have dinner facing the computer, so that I won’t “waste any time”.
However, while I am engaged in more and more activities and have more friends, my
life in Australia became less regular and came to involve more activities that
are considered as “extra” by my parents. It is inherent in their mind that a
regular and peaceful life with the closest family is ideal. I sometimes look at
their pictures or just talk to them when I miss them, but I never say that. It
is not common in my family culture to say anything emotional to each other.
However, I do feel terribly sorry sometimes to make this decision to stay
overseas long term. It is very challenging to leave home and family for my
education and possibly my future.
The amount of great advice in Andrea's words is hard to
overestimate. Her honesty about her challenges should help to prepare any
student going to another country prepare for culture shock and moments of
isolation and confusion.
Unlike many students who have large numbers o fellow
students from their country around them, Andrea made a choice to immerse
herself in the language and culture of Australia. I talking with her I can
attest her Australian accent is as good as a naïve as least to my American ear.
We are genetically wired to seek out like-minded and like looking people. To make
a conscious effort to break away from the comforts of home, language and
culture is courageous. Too many people who have never spent significant amounts
of time in another culture do not appreciate how hard this is.
We learn by experiencing both success and setbacks. I admire
Andrea for her success with TEDx. In her comments she had been far too modest.
As the founder of TExUNIMelb she has brought a huge range of speakers to
address global and local issues. A glance at their website will impress anyone. SImon Griffith's talk on beer and toilet paper proves that all of us can be philanthropists..That she has organised all this while a full time student underscores her commitment
to making change globally. Some of us in a lifetime devoted to education have reached
far fewer people than she has in just a few years.
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I also admire her for her willingness to work through the
initial alienation she felt among native Aussies so that now she is an active
participant in the culture and country. Her comments about these challenges
should be used by educators everywhere as useful guidelines for hose preparing
for a huge life change and a sometimes-difficult transition. If she were in the
US I would bring her in as a speaker for orientation programs for students from
China.
It is timely that a just published article encourages those
of us who speak English to learn another language. The words and grammar are only
a part of the story. The culture of any country is embedded in language and to
learn to be fluent in another language is to be fluent in another culture. Andrea
says this beautifully and has lived it fully. I have talked with many people
and interviewed thousands but my talks with her, across the world via Skype,
were more informative and inspiring than many I have have had with people who
are professors or long time teachers. She has much to contribute to the world; I am lucky I have had a chance to see her now on the beginning of a great
journey.
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